I Should Be Retired by Now… But I Just Can’t Let Go!

You know how people talk about retirement like it’s this glorious chapter of endless relaxation, exotic travel, and spending the afternoon with a good book? Well, guess what? That could’ve been me. Should have been me, actually. I had this grand plan to retire from weddings—kick up my feet, maybe sip a cocktail while watching daytime TV, and start learning the difference between my garden gnomes. But here’s the thing… I just couldn’t do it

 

 

“But Elaine, why didn’t you?”

Oh, don’t get me wrong. I gave it a good shot. After years of planning and styling weddings, I decided in 2022 that it was time to call it a day, shut up shop, and gracefully step aside. It all sounded wonderful in theory—more free time, fewer spreadsheets, no more late-night calls about seating plans or cake disasters.

And yet… the wedding world kept calling me back. Like a fabulous pair of shoes you keep trying to declutter but end up putting back in the closet—because they just complete the outfit—I realised that retirement was simply not for me.

 

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The Heart Wants What It Wants

I mean, how do you retire from a job that never felt like just a job? When your passion is weddings, love stories, and all the gorgeous details in between, walking away isn’t as easy as it sounds. The truth is, I still get a buzz from helping couples create the day of their dreams. There’s nothing quite like seeing a wedding come together—a vision that started on paper and ends with confetti, laughter, and a packed dance floor.

It didn’t take long for me to realize that my heart wasn’t in retirement; it was still in planning, creating, and working with couples and venues to bring their wedding dreams to life. Sure, I could’ve stuck to that plan of leisurely afternoons and yoga retreats, but come on—where’s the fun in that?

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The Big Reveal: Elaine’s Wedding Consultancy Is Back

So here I am—back with a vengeance (or should I say, a vision?)! And yes, I’ve got something new and exciting up my sleeve. After months of hinting on social media, I’m thrilled to announce that Elaine’s Wedding Consultancy is in full swing once again.

But this time, I’m doing things a little differently. I’m combining all my years of expertise into three powerhouse services that cater to venues, suppliers, and of course, my beloved couples. I’ve poured everything I’ve learned (and trust me, it’s a lot) into helping everyone involved in weddings—from the ones planning their dream day to the professionals making it happen.

Why Bother?

I know, I know—I could be soaking up the sun in retirement. But the truth is, weddings are my passion. They always have been. And when you’re this passionate, you can’t just pack it up and walk away. There’s too much joy in being part of something so special, in seeing everything fall into place, in making sure that each moment is magical.

Plus, who can resist a good cake-tasting session? I’m only human!

What’s Next?

I’m beyond excited to be back, working with couples to create unforgettable weddings, and teaming up with venues and suppliers to make magic happen. So, if you thought my “retirement” was going to last, sorry to disappoint! There’s too much love, creativity, and joy in this business for me to hang up my planner’s hat just yet.

So whether you’re newly engaged, a supplier looking to spruce up your brand, or a venue wanting to wow your couples—Elaine’s Wedding Consultancy is here, ready to sprinkle a little wedding magic once more.

Cheers to this next chapter—because who needs retirement when there are still so many weddings to plan?

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